My friend just found out her husband screwed her over for two years. He started cheating on her when their cheild was just two months old. How about that? Why is it that hard to be faithfull and to love unconditionally? With valentines ahead my thoughts are with her. He screwed her over and now she will be a single mum with two kids. She stopped working for the kids, she had a nice job a nice income. She sacrificed for their family. What did he do? He screwed her. Off course he will pay for the kids but how about those years lost? How about the dream shattered? There is nothing anyone can do to make up for that grief.
Why is it that people you love hurt you the most? Why do they even? Sugarbee my thoughts are with you! You are a wonderfull strong woman and great mum. It is amazing to see how you cope with this pain. Your kids are as happy as ever and it is thanks to you! Be very very proud and hold your chin high!
Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
Wednesday, February 12, 2014
Thursday, August 15, 2013
Throw away marriages
Lately it has come to my attention that more and more people just get a divorce. I mean, they just throw away their marriage like garbage. There was a time when people would fight to keep their marriage. Sometimes just because of their faith and sometimes not to loose face but at least they tried to make it work.
These days people get a divorce when the partner farted too loud or they did not clean up their plate. It is silly, why get married when you throw it away that easy? Why marry if you are not willing to fight for it. Life is about ups and downs and marriage is too. It is not by chance that the vows have a part about "in good times and bad", it is there for a reason. There is no marriage without downs as there is no life without downs. It is upto you to turn the downs in ups. When you are married you will have double downs as you and your partner have downs. Deal with them! Or do not get married. What is marriage when people get divorced this easy? It means nothing. Off course there are plenty of reasons that make a divorce really legit but just because you are having a bad month is just not one of them!
These days people get a divorce when the partner farted too loud or they did not clean up their plate. It is silly, why get married when you throw it away that easy? Why marry if you are not willing to fight for it. Life is about ups and downs and marriage is too. It is not by chance that the vows have a part about "in good times and bad", it is there for a reason. There is no marriage without downs as there is no life without downs. It is upto you to turn the downs in ups. When you are married you will have double downs as you and your partner have downs. Deal with them! Or do not get married. What is marriage when people get divorced this easy? It means nothing. Off course there are plenty of reasons that make a divorce really legit but just because you are having a bad month is just not one of them!
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